Hello, my little curious plaything. I see you’re ready to take the plunge. Allow me to guide you on your new BDSM JOURNEY. What kind of dominatrix are you seeking? Have you thought about that before? Don’t let me put you off with that question. Primarily, you should look for someone whose interests match yours and who you feel will listen. Perhaps you are still trying to figure out what you like or if BDSM is going to be a part of your life. A skilled Dominatrix can help you with both of those things or just enable you to have a fantastic time.

Allow me to tell you a bit about my play style as a dominatrix. I am playful and sultry. Commanding and strict, but not without cause. Cruel, but I wouldn’t describe myself that way because I’m always delighting in whatever I’m doing to you. Imagine a villain with an agenda and a very strict personal code of ethics that is extremely twisted by anyone else’s definition. That’s me. Lawful Evil, but make it sexy.

Every BDSM scene and every play partner is unique, and I have an arsenal of toys, tools, and skills at my disposal to take you into whatever headspace or physical space that I desire. (I, of course, am a gear collector.) Whether I need to seduce you to bring you to your knees or command you to open up your most submissive self to me, I will get what I want. What do I desire? To play with you and have you submit to me. To convince you that it is safe to open up to me and share your darkest desires. And to give you a space where you can turn off and allow someone else to make the decisions, to hit that reset button that only BDSM seems to provide.

The act of domination and submission becomes an intricate partnered dance when two people work well together. For example, the input I give you, you return, and vice versa. Everything is dynamic and mutual. My abilities as a dominatrix are quite broad, and my skillset is versatile. From soft and sultry to stern and commanding and everything in between, we will be sure to discover our own unique harmony.

A BDSM scene can be escapism, a way to reset, or a very pure way to express ourselves, free of judgment and away from the rest of the world. I love creating that and seeing what I’ve dreamed up, with and for my partner, come to life. Who wouldn’t? Some questions I want you to ask yourself when approaching me are:

In BDSM scenes, what is the feeling you find most satisfying or that you are wanting to experience?

When it comes to your play style and kink identity, how do you describe yourself?

Do you have a role that you like to play in a scene?

Now that we’ve covered that, we can move on to the fun stuff! What I like and how I like to play. I look forward to pushing each and every one of your buttons, twisting your mind and testing your body.

Is it your first time submitting to a dominatrix? Perhaps you have a lot of experience and are seeking a specific experience. I aim to make the BDSM experience accessible to everyone of all skill and experience levels and take great pride in my ability to scale my abilities as your Mistress. When you are at my feet, you will find yourself in a non-judgmental space where you can share your deepest desires and thoughts while completely letting go of control.

Ideal for newbies. Exploration designed to facilitate the discovery of your interests or an introduction.

For those who have an idea of what they’re looking for from kink and are looking for and want guidance.

Not necessarily “intense”, per se but completely handing over and going Deeper Down the Rabbit Hole.

I offer Dominatrix, Fetish, Femdom, BDSM sessions. My domination style ranges from Classical Femdom to Sensual Domination, Fetish-focused Sessions, Slave Training, and everything in between. Connection and sharing mutual interests are of great importance to me.

BDSM is more than four letters to me, it is an expansion of human connection and experience. It goes beyond the physical, the mental and the emotional. I consider BDSM to be an expanded version of sexuality that allows us to express ourselves without judgement and without the conventional restraints of normal parameters or limitations- I have always found myself outside the box and the older I have gotten the more expansion I have craved. Although I can sometimes play the typical “cruel bitch” you might find in BDSM porn, you won’t find me to be one dimensional because my kink play is not an act, it is an expression and an art form.

When you step into my dungeon you will leave your responsibility and accountability at the door; My gift to you is to handle everything for you. I understand how exhausting it can be to have to manage what feel like the entire the entire world and to have to stay on top of it all constantly- Updates need to be launched, people need to be managed, it never ends. For just a few hours when you are with me you get to let that all fade away. I am someone who is detail focused and control oriented, rest assured- You’re safe in my hands.

Fetish play does is like the kinky part of the fun but minus the rougher aspect of a Traditional BDSM experience. Think of it as sort of like a Kinky Strip Tease, when some fetishes are concerned (looking at you Looners.) sometimes you just want the straight up kink. Let’s get kinky together and have some deliciously kinky Fetish Fun.

As an experienced lifestyle Domme, I have had quite an array of experiences and play partners and I have many kinky toys too. It has been my privilege to play with people of all walks of life and with all tastes for kink. It would be my honor to share my experience with you and to delve deep with you on a fetish fueled journey into the unknown or perhaps known to you. Care to tell me, what is your fetish?

Maybe it’s something as simple as a scent, a shoe, pantyhose, the feel of something slippery. Or maybe something a little more nefarious and involved. Perhaps it’s the feeling of the weight of someone pressing down on you or the taste of something unsavory. No matter how hard you try, you can’t get it out of your head. It may seem unusual to others but to you it is just normal and to me it is too. That it the beauty of fetish and fantasy, there is a huge realm to explore and what it normal depends on your perspective. I think that Fetishes and Domination are intimately intertwined, perhaps the only reason for highlighting this aspect of my interest is so that *you* feel comfortable approaching me. I do not think that anyone’s fetish or interest is weird or odd, I think they should be celebrated and explored. Perhaps I can be your guide?

You crave erotic exploration but a traditional dungeon experience with whips, chains and pain seems… Intimidating. You want to be a good submissive, you want to serve and please your Mistress but you want an experience that leans more gentle and seductive than harsh. You want to be seduced and hypnotized by the erotic power of Femdom and then give in to your hedonistic desires. A Sensual Femdom Mistress seems perfect, doesn’t she? You have fantasized about how good submission feels, how good it feels to please and obey your Femdom Mistress. Perhaps you could explore even deeper with the right woman.

BDSM isn’t all pain, it is so much more. When you are under my control it’s about uncovering all your desires and plunging into the depths of your obedience and subservience to me. It feels so good to be obedient, that’s the point. Pleasure. Giving in and letting me take control, opening your mind and body to new experiences.

Sometimes I seduce control away from you, break down your defenses. Leave you helpless and whimpering.

Other times you are so susceptible to my control that you easily fall into line instantly. Perhaps you are under my spell or I’ve charmed you. You will have to explore further to find out.

Imagine being at the mercy of a seductive Femdom Mistress who makes you a little nervous but so excited that you can’t help but comply. Your Dominant Goddess will have you wrapped around her finger in absolutely no time at all. Begging for the sweetest kind of erotic mercy.

Can you picture yourself so enthralled by the power of a truly dominant woman who knows who to use her femininity that you surrender all control? I bet you’ve had moments of it.

Put yourself in my capable hands and allow me to guide you. I’ll help you figure out exactly how you much you can handle, while maintaining a comfortable balance of sexy and kinky. There’s always a balance in BDSM between pleasure and pain but sometimes you’re kinky and just not completely into the whole pain idea and that’s totally okay. (That doesn’t mean you’re not kinky.)

From the sensual femdom approach, I make a point of connecting with my play partner and really getting to the core of what drives their interest in submitting to me as their dominatrix. Pushing buttons is key and it’s so psychological. I believe that kink does not have to be a strict protocol related event or that I have to be a cold, hard, bitch in order to get you to do what I want. In fact, I think I can control completely you with a simple look or a sultry command.

So, you’re curious about BDSM, Kink, Fetish, learning how to play safely, effectively and well. I can help with that! Whether you’re looking to top, bottom, switch, learn new skills or polish old ones I am always happy to share my knowledge. I have been a lifestyle kinkster for almost a decade and a professional Mistress for over a decade, so I have amassed some knowledge that I would be delighted to share. I think life is always a journey of collecting and sharing information.

I teach what I am skilled at and what I know- I am always studying the world around me and my world comprises of human sexuality, the intricacies of motivation/drive, human psychology, anatomy, practical BDSM applications such as how to throw a whip and how to push someone without breaking them and any combination of the above. I’d like to think that I am a fairly unique BDSM educator because of my skill set, information base and interests. As an educator I bring all of my skills to the table and present them in a way that makes sense for the needs of the class/lesson and try to meet the student(s) at their skill and comfort level while being honest, genuine and informative.

When speaking to others about BDSM, my primary focus is to create an environment where an openminded attitude and acceptance can flourish. I think it’s important to challenger preconceived notions and personal biases, my teaching style aims to do this while being respectful and courteous. There are a lot of misconceptions about BDSM and how people treat each other in a healthy BDSM relationship (even in ones where people play fairly hard) and it is my personal goal to break down negative archetypes. I want to challenge people to think of those who practice BDSM in new and positive ways without it being a confrontation.

When teaching privately I am happy to teach one on one, in small groups or everything in between. My goal here is to create a happy, safe and fun environment wherein you feel like you can try new things without feeling pressured. Think of it as just stepping outside your comfort zone rather than being shoved. The important part is that you end up with good, real information that helps you be safe and skillful in your play! There is a lot of negotiation (verbal and otherwise) that has to go on in order to make sure that everyone is participating is having a good time. I can show you how to make all the magic happen.

Specifically, with domination there is a very fine line between breaking limits and pushing them, I can teach you the nuances of how to navigate these complexities. If you want to do “everything you want” you have to find a play partner who has the same interests, finding a good play partner is all about figuring out how to carry out these negotiations. If you just force your desires on to someone, that is bordering on assault or even abuse (which is NOT BDSM.) BDSM is a very pure form of energy exchange in the regard that you are often pushing people to do things that are physically, mentally and emotionally difficult. The role of being dominant is NOT something to be taken lightly and it requires a certain level of commitment to the submissive person that you will help put them back together after playing with them.